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Casual dating for adults

Casual Sex: Choose Your Shag

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No dinners, no games and no strings. Flirt in private, swap a cheeky photo or two and meet up when you both fancy it.

Adults only, 18+. Discreet profiles. Help by chat, day and night.

Welcome to Get A Shag

Get A Shag is a casual dating site for adults who want sex without the strings. Members message, share photos and meet others who share a taste for casual encounters, and because discretion matters, the site gives you a private place to search and chat on your own terms.

Nobody is expected to want a candlelit dinner. You say out loud what you are after, whether that is a one-off with someone new, a regular hook-up that suits you both, or a bit of filthy flirting before you decide anything at all, and being upfront saves a lot of time.

It runs in the browser on any phone or computer, so there is nothing to install. See everything members can do, then make your move.

Made for No-Strings Fun

  • ID Checks

    Members can take an ID check at no charge, and a verified badge shows on their profile, so you can see who has proved they are real.

  • Local Members

    Search, find and message people near you. Your daily suggestions weigh distance, so the shag down the road stands a better chance of showing up than the one in another county.

  • Safe & Secure

    Block anyone instantly and report a profile or a message from inside the site. Uploads are screened by software and by real people.

  • Customer Care

    A support team is on hand day and night, by chat and messaging, to help with any issue.

  • Search & Messaging

    Browse the members, see who catches your lustful eye, then send a message and find out if they fancy you back.

  • Dating On The Go

    The site works on any phone, and you can pin it to your home screen so it opens like an app.

Why Join Get A Shag?

Because the people on it understand that time is not to be wasted. Send those messages, swap a few naughty pictures, and when you are both ready, meet up and enjoy yourselves.

Browse the profiles near you and see who takes your fancy. Don't be shy; the members certainly are not. Casual sex is a lot more fun when both of you have been clear from the start.

Straight, gay, bi or somewhere in between, you choose who you want to meet when you sign up. Not sure how it all works? Read how to get a shag without wasting a weekend, or see how we stack up in the comparisons with Tinder, Feeld and the rest.

From Hello to Hooking Up

  1. Join free. Pick a username, add your age and who you want to meet, and you are in.
  2. Say what you are after. Add a clear photo and a few honest lines: a one-night stand, something regular, or flirting for now.
  3. Flirt, then meet. Message anyone who catches your eye, chat until you are sure, and meet somewhere public the first time.

Who You Could Meet

A few of the members on Get A Shag. Join free to see who else is about and say hello.

Discreet from the First Click

You appear under a username. Your real name and email address are never shown on your profile, and it names your nearest town or city rather than your street or where you are right now. If a chat stops being fun, block the person and they are gone.

Meeting someone new for sex is exciting, and it pays to be smart about it. Our safety page sets out every protection, meeting a hook-up safely covers the first meet, and the sexual health guide explains where to get free condoms and tests in the UK.

Questions People Ask

What is Get A Shag?

A casual dating site for adults aged 18 and over who want casual sex and no-strings fun. You make a profile, say what you are after, and message people who want the same thing.

Is it discreet?

Yes. You go by a username, your email address and real name are kept off your profile, and your profile shows your nearest town or city, never your address or where you are right now.

Can I find someone near me?

Your daily suggestions weigh distance alongside the ages you want and what each person is after, so people close to you get a fair look-in. How many are nearby depends on where you live.

Do I need to download an app?

No. Get A Shag works in the browser on any phone, tablet or computer, and you can add it to your phone's home screen so it opens like an app.

Ready to Choose Your Shag?

Your profile takes a few minutes. Who you meet, and when, is up to you.

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